LUCK OR FATE

I am beginning to think that sometimes things just keep piling up on us, and you know that we want to just give up, but we try to find the inner strength within ourselves and continue going on.
If you read my earlier blog, you know I recently lost my unborn granddaughter, and had to do the whole funeral thing and such.. now a new situation has come around upon me, and makes me wonder is this just alot of Bad Luck hitting me all at once, or is this my Fate...
The man I fell in love with was suppose to come to US to start a new job and be with me forever, so many times things have come in the way to delay this, and now, now he finally made it to US, although was in Boston for short time as his friends dad had passed away.. And I was so excited that he told me what day would finally arrive to me, 2 days, wow, even though was trying to plan granddaughters funeral, was looking forward to him arriving, as needed the moral support and his love to get me through this tough time.
I did not get the chance to tell him all that had happened as we were DC from the computer before could, but knew he would be here in acouple days and would tell him then. I did not hear any more from him, but thought he wanted to just surprise me and come into my arms as soon as possible.
Well, he never showed on the day he was to arrive, and I never heard a word. This was on a Thursday, same day as granddaughters funeral, so was even more hurt, I needed him to be here.
Days went on, not a word, finally his brother sent me a text back, as I had been texting to that phone thinking my love had it, but turns out had left it with his brother, so his brother sent me a quick text that he thought his brother was on his way back to UK as got some bad news about all his stuff lost on way there. His valuables he said. So I took it as all of his furniture and such that he had shipped. But I did not know any more then that.
Still no word, none at all, was trying to contact only acouple people that may know where he was or what was going on... Finally after about 5 days, I get a response on IM saying that he heard he may of lost all money saved all his life in a bank draft or something like that. So I gave this friend the phone number I had that brother texted me on and he said he would try to call him and get more info.
He called the brother and found out that my love was with friend in UK and trying to deal with all the issues, and he got a number for where he was and would try to contact him and find out all going on and see if he could help. I was at least thankful to know he is safe with a friend, but am still alittle hurt that he did not contact me yet.
And now, still have not heard from the friend if he got hold of him or not, still waiting for an answer on whats going on. And all of this waiting and worrying is driving me totally Crazy..
I know he loves me, and I know he seems to withdraw and want to be all alone when bad things happen, and believe me, he has had his share the past few months since trying to get out here to me. I guess I am afraid he will begin to think all a mistake, and maybe he should just stay where he is... That scares me to death to even possibly think that. But how would you think if no word for over a week.
But I am trying to stay very strong, and not think the negative, and try to think the positive, he has alot to deal with right now, and he will get ahold of me when things are corrected and his mind is thinking clearly and such. Then I am hoping he will contact me and tell me that he is on his way... in the meantime, as dont even have a address to write him letters of encouragement to, and send daily texts, but dont know if he is getting them. But am trying to be strong alone, just wish he would contact me, so we could be strong together...

So, then I wonder, is this just a round of Bad Luck for us right now, or... is this my Fate.....